BEFORE YOU BEFRIEND

This is not a DNI! If you're on this list you can still interact with us--you can like, reblog, follow, send asks, reply to posts, have message interactions, so on - but if you approach to actually make friends it will probably end up with me blocking you.

It probably won't work out if:

🌈 Your only/main intention is to kindate any of us (We like meeting people from our sources but our kintypes should not matter most)
🌈 You're only interested in us because of our kintypes (this can be an in for a friendship but it cannot be everything)
🌈 You don't talk to doubles or people with certain kintypes
🌈 You're only interested in us because you want us to dom you/sub for you (this can be an in for a friendship but it cannot be everything)
🌈 You only want to be friends with certain alters rather than the whole system
🌈 You have a public trigger list or expect people to always avoid your triggers if they talk to you (We want to accommodate our friends and not unnecessarily trigger anyone on purpose, but our general opinion is that being triggered and/or uncomfortable is a normal part of being alive and while you deserve to feel better when triggered, you're not owed people walking on eggshells for you)
🌈 You have a serious DNI where you list a bunch of discourse stances people should have before liking a singular post (In our opinion it should be on the individual user to curate their online experience through the block button instead of it being on everyone else to tirelessly check every DNI list of everyone that they come across online before interacting)
🌈 You're anti-endo or endo-neutral (If you're endo-neutral because you just don't know much about the topic but genuinely have no hate in your heart in that regard then I can usually let that slide)
🌈 Your system relationships are generally hostile without attempts to understand each other or work on it
🌈 You run your system like a dictatorship where one alter/the host is treated like more important and controls or tries to control other alters
🌈 You're antiship
🌈 You're in any way against polyamory or subscribe to amatonormative ideas (We're polyamorous with no intention of ever having any kind of closed relationship. We don't consider love to be a finite resource that needs to be limited to only one or even just select multiple people. We do flirt and fuck around with whoever consents to it)
🌈 You're not anti-capitalist and anti-fascist

These are all dealbreakers most of the time - you could potentially be my friend if you do a few of these, but we would need to have a talk about it and depending on which one it is you'd need to stop or I would leave. I prefer to talk things out with people I'm friends with/actively making friends with, but if our morals just don't align or talking about things doesn't go well early on then I will most likely block, not to be hurtful but to protect my peace.